Dear Subsriber,
WHAT YOU NOTICE MATTERS! And what I've
noticed recently is that we humans have such a
tough time getting out of the deep "grooves" of habit
we
create in our lives.
One friend is trying to
stop
smoking and is blown away with how firmly etched
that habit is. How tenacious.
Another friend
is taking
steps to stop a negative cycle
of choosing men that "need her help."
Such life-altering and liberating change is
courageous and hugely aware. Why aware? Because
taking charge of life and intiating action for a postive
result usally means admitting (and taking
responsibility for) a weakness. There's so much
strength and hope in that.
We empower ourselves anytime we try to
change a bad habit, a limiting behavior or a negative
perspective. It fulfills our life pact: We get this
lifetime to play, experiment, learn and love.
In return, we take responsibility for our actions and
for co-creating the picture that is our life.
Just how much we can change and direct
our lives? Tons! I recently went to my 29th
high school reunion (it was a joint reunion of the
classes of '76 and '77) and I realized just how true
this was. Not for one second did I wish I was back in
high school -- a time when I discovered the gift of
great friendships, but also a time when I felt pretty
powerless to affect my day-to-day
reality. Looking back I realize how wrong
this "powerless" perception was.
So
in this issue of Living
Awareness I'm tackling self-awareness.
Gaining personal insight is an ongoing process. We
need to refresh our perspective, our way of being
from time to time, if we are to truely grow and
experience life at a higher level.
I hope you
enjoy the interview with life and career coach
Caterina Rando. Her energetic "expect success"
philsophy is contagious. Also, I've added some new
links to inspire more self-awareness and
exploration.
Take a playful
look at yourself. Be truthful but kind. You're stronger
than you think and more wonderful. Change is always
good no matter what feelings it brings up. Live
aware, because what you notice matters!
I wish this to be a dialogue exchange, so I would
love to hear your
comments, ideas and questions. Please email me
anytime. You can click here to go to my contact
page.
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Thanks & Happy Labor Day!
Melissa Wadsworth is an
author
specializing in creative awareness and personal
growth topics. Through her public relations and public
speaking buisness, she emphasizes the vital
importance of curiosity, clear intentions and
conscious communications to a satisfying and
successful life path.
Notice More: Meet Success Coach Caterina Rondo |
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According to her father, Caterina
Rando was always that kid in the
neighborhood that everyone ran to for advice.
“It’s true, I’ve never been shy in giving advice,”
Caterina confirms cheerfully. “I don’t remember
exactly what advice I used to give, but these days
there are certain principles that I follow. I never
criticize people or put them down. It’s not my job to
judge your dream; it’s my job to help you get it. And,
everyone has the right to ask for what they
want.”
Such clear insight works extremely well for Caterina
in her career as a success coach, keynote speaker
and author based in her hometown of San
Francisco.
High-energy, a positive outlook and great focus is
evident in everything Caterina does. From her
tagline: “Helping You Achieve Success with Ease,” to
a catchy encouragement like “Expect Success,” she
seems to walk her talk. Listening to one of her
presentations recently, I found myself thankful each
time she directed the audience to “take a deep
breath” (something I often forget to do as I wade
through my always-expanding-would-love-get-done”
list). And by presentation end, I definitely wanted
some of her enthusiastic confidence and wise
expertise -- a response I’m sure she generates
frequently.
Caterina came to professional coaching with a
bachelors degree in Organizational Behavior and a
masters in Life Transitions Counseling. Furthermore,
she is able to assess emotional intelligence
(awareness of your emotions when you feel them and
being aware of other’s feelings about you). All this
helps her to be clear about one thing: coaching is
not therapy, and she is 100% about coaching.
Describing her own process of self-development,
Caterina recalls: “In the beginning I went to all the
seminars. I listened to all the experts. After a while I
realized that they contradict each other! It just
takes times and experience for each of us to find out
what works best. [We need to] know that it’s an
exploration process rather a definitive answer.”
In fact, Caterina’s path to coaching was not straight
forward. She interrupted her advanced schooling to
go to Italy for year. She later went into the family
catering and café business. Then Caterina enlisted
her own professional coach, who told her that she’d
be a great coach. Judging by Caterina’s impressive
client list, it seems her coach was right on the
money.
Coaching and Self-Awareness
So what type of person enlists the help of
coaches? “People who want to improve more come to
coaching,” explains Caterina, who says that most
clients are high-functioning individuals who come to
her knowing already what they would like to work on.
They know what their issues are, what’s holding
them back. She states with clarity, “I need a certain
level of self-awareness from someone who works
with me.”
When asked about coaching as a self-awareness
building tool, Caterina replies, “coaching is a
container for noticing more.”
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Get Yourself in Focus: Top Ten Clarity-Boosting Tips |
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In life, personal growth is the only true achievement.
Everyone, no matter their age, intelligence level,
background or accomplishments can benefit by
growing through personal awareness and insight.
After all, aren't we trying to grasp not only
insight into how we can achieve our life goals, but
also trying to constantly access the smarts of the
soul? That's an education for a lifetime. And you
have to pay attention!
So much life
satisfaction can come from the simple feeling of
progressing, of moving forward, of taking even the
smallest of steps. So take self-awareness steps
forward in how you think about yourself, in how you
present yourself to the world each day. Get better at
nourishing your relationships. Enrich your spiritual life.
For a little inspiration, here are my top ten
clarity-boosting tips:
- Accentuate the positive. Assess your
strenghts and talents. What natural or developed
abilities do you have? How do you use your
strengths? Could you be developing your abilities to a
greater degree? Sometimes we downplay or ignore
our own special qualities. Embrace them. If you
haven't updated or expanded on your strengths in a
while consider taking a class or seminar that
augments your present level of ability. Think of
creative ways to use your personality strengths to
help others. Consider what activity would challenge
you and then take it on. All these steps enlarge your
awareness of having a positive presence in the
world.
- Do the life lesson lingo. Write down your
ongoing life lessons. You know the ones. Those
lessons you keep getting
over and over (and may be trying hard to ignore).
For me, patience is the lesson that
keeps on giving. Consider what one step you could
take to improve in each life lesson area. For
instance, I might decide to remind myself each time
I'm feeling impatient or dim of hope: "It always takes
longer than I think. The universe is not on my time
schedule." You get the idea.
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Inspirational Quote |
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"The Law of Process teaches us not only to break a
journey into shorter sections but also to appreciate
each step as if it were an end in itself. Every step
becomes a small success in itself; that way, we
succeed many times, not just when we reach our
final
goal. What we learn on the journey may turn out to
be more important than reaching the
destination."
From
The Life Your Were
Born To Live by Dan Millman
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Living Awareness Exercise |
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Have you taken life by the horns? I love this
photograph because it was a happy time in my
mother's life, when she was happily steering (couldn't
resist the pun) her life. It's all in her expression: no
fear, only humor and joy.
Sometimes it's
helpful to take a
look back to get perspective on where we are now
and how far we've
come.
Exercise: Find a favorite
photo of yourself from your younger days -- toddler
to 20s. What do you like about this photo of
yourself? What emotions do you see? What part of
your life does it remind you of? Secondly, select a
photo from the present. What do you see now? Have
you lost some characteristics of your youth? Briefly
describe your feelings about the younger you
compared to the present you. Does this inspire you
to make any positive changes? Would you like to
recapture youthful glee or playfulness? Or are you
happy about the person you are today?
Please do not use photographs
from this publication.
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